Defying The Odds
“Out of difficulties grow miracles” ~Jean De La Bruyere~
Just a few days ago I had a galling situation with my new doctor. A few months ago I had angioplasty surgery and had a stent put in my aortic artery.
Since that time my life habits have been exemplary, and as a result my weight has decreased by close to 12 kilograms without starvation and my blood pressure was 110 over 66 the other day.
When I had my worst moment – prior to surgery – I had been fortunate to be in the right place (with a good friend). He knew a hospital and could pull strings so that I could be admitted as an emergency patient. Equally fortunate was that I was met by a young, aggressive, knowledgeable doctor who spoke English very well.
The operation and recovery went smoothly. My rapport with the doctor was good, probably because I knew that my lifestyle in the previous year sucked and that I had to get back on the straight and narrow. He could sense my determination.
Then the bombshell came .My cardiologist told me he was changing hospitals and would no longer be able to treat me. He recommended that I switch to a Japanese military hospital in my area, and he wrote his letter of introduction to be submitted to the new hospital along with my record of illness.
When I met with the new physician a few days ago, he said in somewhat halting English that “I understand your case well.”
I immediately bristled at that presumption. I said to the doctor: “You know nothing about me. I am not a laboratory specimen. I have spirit and a will to recover and thrive – not just survive on a regiment of pills.”
He was taken aback by my controlled anger, but he shouldn’t have been. If we are sick, it is because our thoughts are sick. I am not a statistic, nor are you. We all have the ability to thrive and, at times, participate in miracles.
My favored cardiologist was on my recovery team. The new doctor, unfortunately, was on my survival team. The previous doctor – seeing how I had mastered my eating and was gradually increasing my exercise level – wanted to do some CT scans to test the amount of oxygen in my blood after moderate exercise. The new doctor said that that wouldn’t be necessary for at least six months.
Now I am not saying that a person with a heart condition should throw caution to the wind, but I am saying that a resilient human spirit can create miracles. Cancers can go into remission and hearts can inexplicably regenerate when our attitudes are in the right place.
Never let anyone diagnose you by a statistic. If you read this newsletter, then you know I believe success is in the cards for you. Take control of your life and manage your life-sapping habits which can put you on the operating table or in the morgue long before you should be there.